"ARE YOU PRESENT TO THE MIRACLE THAT YOU ARE?"
"WHAT IF YOU COULD EXPECT MIRACLES TO SHOW UP?"
"MORE ON PARTNERSHIP: BECOMING A TEAM!"
"PARTNERSHIP" What is True Partnership and How to Create It.
"MOTION." Which Direction Are You Headed?
I was asked: "DO BOYS NEED TO BE TAUGHT EMPATHY?
I was asked: "WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO REALLY BELIEVE IN YOURSELF?
IT'S TIME TO CLOSE THE GAP BETWEEN WHERE YOU'RE AT AND WHAT YOU DESIRE.
Enough of the Manipulation Marketing! I'm About to Save You a Whole Lot of Time and Energy....Siri Baruc Thornton awesome for Akashic Records Readings and Reiki Healing!!!
These are the folks I mention in the video: Stefanie Gilmore Lesley Tavernier Erikaa Briones Sarah Poet Lillie Love Daniel Fox Thomas Hargrove Khayr Carter Lauren Searles China Brooks Minista Jazz Jasmine Aten Jonathon Aslay Maria Palumbo Navae Lukas Genevieve RackhamGianna Rackham Lisa Rose
YOU NEED TO BE HEARD.
WHAT MEN AND WOMEN NEED TO KNOW RIGHT NOW ABOUT TRUST AND INTIMACY.
I was asked: "WHAT ARE YOU AN EXPERT AT? How do you work and how do your clients get results?
"WHAT ARE THE CONVERSATIONS YOU ARE NOT HAVING AND WHAT NEEDS AREN'T GETTING MET?"
"WHY WE SELL OURSELVES SHORT AND WHY WE NEED TO TAKE A STAND FOR WHAT WE DESIRE."
"THE IMPORTANCE OF RIGHT NOW."
"LIFE IS GONNA LIFE, HOW ARE YOU GONNA LIVE IT?"
"WE ARE NOT ALL BUILT THE SAME."
"THE HUMAN CHAIN OF HEALING."
"YOU ARE NOT ALONE."
"SEX AND INTIMACY ARE NOT THE SAME THING."
"THE LOVING BREAKUP."
I was asked: "HOW DO I LEARN TO TRUST AFTER I'VE BEEN BETRAYED?"
I was asked about: "FORGIVENESS."
I was asked: "HOW DO I GET OVER THE FACT THAT MY PARENTS DIDN'T LOVE ME?"
LET'S TALK ABOUT DEPRESSION...
I was asked: "HOW CAN YOU GIVE RELATIONSHIP ADVICE IF YOU ARE NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP?"
I was asked: "CAN A MAN HAVE A HEALTHY AND BALANCED RELATIONSHIP WITH A WOMAN IF HE HAS A HORRIBLE RELATIONSHIP WITH HIS MOTHER?" I also address women and their fathers.
I was asked: WHAT DO YOU THINK DAUGHTERS SHOULD KNOW ABOUT RELATING WITH MEN...and Regarding Relationships in General?
I was asked: WHY ARE MEN SO ANGRY?
It comes down to how we process emotions and what our motivations are.
I was asked about: CORE ENERGETICS AND HEALING (SEXUAL) TRAUMA.
When we have injuries, traumas and upsets, our energetic bodies become fragmented. Core Energetics allows us to reconnect those fragmented parts to have us get back to whole and complete.
I was asked: HOW DO I HEAL AND ATTRACT A HEALTHY PARTNER?
WHAT ARE YOU WILLING TO GIVE UP TO BE HAPPY?
WHAT ARE YOUR RELATIONSHIPS TEACHING YOU?
WHAT IS YOUR VISION?
BE EXCELLENT TO EACH OTHER.
Getting stuck in labels and minutiae just causes a greater divide. Keep it simple...be excellent to each other.
IT'S TIME TO GET OFF THE FENCE! DON'T WORRY...I GOT YOU.
KEEPING IT REAL:
SOMETIMES, THIS IS WHAT HEALING LOOKS LIKE.
TURN TOWARDS EACH OTHER. (Part 3 of "How Do We heal So That We Can Get Back to the Love.")
GET CURIOUS ABOUT THE PERSON IN FRONT OF YOU. (Part 2 of "How Do We Heal So That We Can Get Back to the Love.")
THE PERSON IN FRONT OF YOU IS NOT YOUR ENEMY. HOW DO YOU ACHIEVE THIS...AND WHY? (Part 1 of "How Do We Heal So That We Can Get Back to the Love?")
HOW DO WE HEAL SO THAT WE CAN GET BACK TO THE LOVE?
WE ARE ALL JUST WOUNDED PEOPLE BUMPING INTO OTHER WOUNDED PEOPLE...SO WHAT?
ARE YOU AND YOUR PARTNER FIGHTING THE SAME BATTLE?
CHOOSING YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS THE KEY TO HAVING IT WORK.
DATING, RELATING AND COMMUNICATING IN THE #METOO ERA.
A BIT ABOUT MEN.
WHAT WE REALLY NEED FROM EACH OTHER.
CONSENT AND BOUNDARIES ARE SEXY!
You get to say what works for you and what does not.
THE NEW PROTECTOR AND PROVIDER.
It's time for an upgrade of the traditional "protector and provider" model.
ARE YOU ALLERGIC TO JOY?
STOP FEELING BAD ABOUT DOING WHAT WORKS FOR YOU.
JOY! WHERE THE FU*K DID IT GO?
We all have the potential to feel joy, it has just been shut down over the years. What excites you? What makes you happy? What does that even feel like?
DOING WHATEVER WORKS FOR YOU.
You are all unique and powerful individuals. Even though we have been socialized and homogenized to believe we need to "fit into a certain box," the truth is, your uniqueness is necessary.
THE "RIGHT WAY" TO DO THINGS.
We have all been taught that there is a right way and a wrong way to do things. Most of us have been taught that our way of doing things is the wrong way. NO MORE! Your way has effectively gotten you to this point. It is your judgements that wreak havoc. You get to discover what really does work for you, and you get to do that (and enjoy that) with all the support you need!
THE SHAME GAME IS STRONG.
Shame, Guilt and Judgement have us on the defensive, playing small and hiding from our true selves. It is time to break free!
You Are Your Guru!!
You are the one that got you here. You are the one who will get you where you are going. No one else can do that for you. The good news is, you get to stop beating yourself up for doing it "wrong!"
The Shadow Side:
We all have a shadow side: the dark place we have been taught to be afraid to examine. This is where our fear, anger, shame and hesitation comes from. This is where our limiting beliefs reside. There is power in turning towards it. We become whole when we integrate it.
Cycles and Why You Choose to Stay Stuck:
We all experience the ups and downs and ebbs and flows. We tend to enjoy the ups and the flows and dread the downs and ebbs. However you choose to feel about it, there is nothing you can do about it. It is going to happen. So recognizing and accepting this gives you access to new actions that actually support you! I also invite you to look at the patterns that keep you stuck and how, on a deep level, you believe they benefit you. Thanks so much for watching and sharing!
Jerry Springer, Facebook Wars and Tantra.
You're just gonna have to watch the video...
Dogma and All the Things You Should Be Doing...
We love to express all the "shoulds;" How you should be, what you should do, the religion you should subscribe to, the thoughts you should have, the feelings you should feel, and on and on. There is no one-size fits all. There is no "ultimate absolute." There is only YOU. What you want, and then what works and does not work for you in regards to that. You have the power. You have the choice. It is Your life.
The Power of Decision in Manifesting!
Having manifestation work, depends in large part on having made a clear decision. When you know the why, and then decide that "this is so," you universe aligns. It is when there is not a clear decision, or when you waver in your decision, that the waters get muddied.
The Power of the Dark Side...
We are conditioned to avoid pain. So when "bad" feelings come up, we tend to do everything we can to not feel them...medicate, drink, take drugs, etc. What we are missing when we do this, is the gold that comes from these messages! Turning in to the pain, the grief, the anger creates the space for healing.
Where are you blocking yourself from the experiences and life you want because you do not believe you deserve it? What can you do to break through that?
Millennials Are On to Something!
Millennials, moving in to Gen-Z, usually get the bad wrap of "they are entitled, they don't work, they don't get human connection," however...there is something to the "I can do whatever I want" attitude that the rest of us are all working so hard to get back to.
You Get To Do Whatever You Want!
How is your life going right now? How do you feel? Chaotic? Stressed? Frustrated? Consider that's a good thing! Why? Because you desire something more, something bigger, to feel better! And you can! You get to do whatever you want! (And you already are).
Your Computer Brain is Running Programs You Don't Even Know About!
Your brain, like a computer, is constantly receiving data, processing, storing, exporting, spitting stuff out, etc. Until we get that we are the ones running the show, by inputting and interpreting the data, the computer brain does. The results can be stress, anxiety, sadness, frustration, etc. And most of the programs that are running, we don't even know about. So, how do you begin running the show by discovering & interrupting those programs? Vanilla Ice knows. You can also download my "Daily Gratitude" audio for free and begin there!
Pain, Discomfort, Illness, Heartbreak, Aggravation, etc all have a message to deliver. There is more you want out of life, and looking within is the way to discover what there is to do and who there is to be to experience what you wish you desire! The other good new is: Joy, Bliss, Happiness and Love also have a message! So, how do you get the message? Watch the video :-)
The Ego is a Motherfu*ker! And...You are the ONE!
Labels and Why I don't Use Them.
We have learned to quickly label ourselves and each other as a means to "identify," keep us safe and justify how we are being. The thing is, labels keep us stuck as a certain way with no room to grow or change. What if you are not "boring?" What if you just know what you like to do and like to not do? When you remove the labels, you get to just be. You get to be you, however you are, wherever you are. And that is freedom.
You already have everything you need to create whatever it is you desire! It is already within you. It is just a matter of remembering that, recognizing that and being intentional with your focus.
There is nothing wrong with you!: You are perfect, whole and complete just the way you are. You don't have to do anything, be a certain way or "get something." You have the choice at all times, and that choice is never "bad" or "wrong." You get to be you. And when you are being "you," more of what you desire shows up.
Break-ups: Relationships and Context: No "Relationship" video series would be complete without including break-ups. We all have the choice how to view and experience a break-up. We all get to look for the value in the relationship, the gifts of that relationship and the gifts in it ending.
The Power of Polarity: What would it be like to form a union with anyone, in any situation, knowing that what ever you bring to the table to create together, will expand beyond what you thought possible?
The Power of Context Part 3: Using Mastery to Alter Your Context!
We all have at least one thing we are proficient at, even masterful at. When we are stuck in a context that limits us where we do not see a way out, we can call on that mastery of any area, and apply it!
The Power of Context Part 2: What is Context? Everything around us exists in the context we have chosen and created; our point of view, expectations, judgements, how things "should be", etc. When we finally get that we are living within a chosen context, we can actually do something about that. How do you want to experience your life? Visit: www.CoachwithMatthewSolomon.com Thanks for watching, "liking" and sharing!
The Power of Context Part 1: What is it and how to transform it!
We are all living within the context we have created for ourselves, that is very specific to our experiences and influences. When we get this, and take responsibility for it, we can actually do something about it! You can choose to alter, or transform, your context to have the things you desire. How? Assuming a higher energy, choosing a bigger way of being that opens you up to new actions and experiences.
Morning Rituals! How bad do you want what you say you want?
Getting your mind focused first thing in the morning is crucial to living a prosperous life. If you do not get control of your mind first thing in the morning, it will control you. How bad do you want what you say you want? If it hasn't shown up yet, there is probably a big action, commitment or shift that needs to happen. Are you willing to wake up 15 minutes early, 30 minutes early or more to do the focus-work to have what you desire most?
When Do You Get to Have What You Want? Right NOW!!
You just have to be clear on what you want, decide you will have it and allow it to show up. So why isn't it showing up?
Relationships Part 6: Leave the Box at Home.
All of our preconceptions and judgements put someone in a box with no room for them to show up differently...and when they do, it's a "fluke." How do you want to communicate with, and relate to, the people in your life? You will not be able to experience that until you get rid of that box, create an intention, and give them the space to show up for you!
Putting Yourself Through the Fire: Sometimes when we are moving towards what we want, we come up against blocks and challenges. Breaking through those blocks and challenges involves "putting yourself through the fire." Taking a stand for something...for yourself!
Relationships Part 5: Where Are You in Your Communication?
We all just want to feel heard, understood and loved. When we look to another person to provide that for us, we trip ourselves up and create competition. Where can you be aware of, and take responsibility for, your reactions? And when you do this, can you provide the listening and understanding you need for yourself?
Relationships Part 4: Effective Listening and Communication!
We are not taught how to communicate effectively. We are taught to survive, be right, not be wrong and debate. When we are doing this, we are in competition and not in creation. To listen effectively you hear what the person is actually saying, get what their experience is, and get what they are committed to. When you do this, anything is possible.
Relationships Part 3: “No One Owes You a Damn Thing!” When we are coming from “being owed,” we are in ego, entitlement and scarcity. When you’re in scarcity, you are not creating the life or relationships you desire.
Relationships!! Part 2: It’s Not Personal...until it is. We all just want to feel heard, understood and loved. It’s hard to receive and give that when we, the “reaction machines” that we are, have our own shit in the way. How do we navigate that and avoid the shit show?
Relationships!!! We all just want to feel heard, understood and loved. How do we recognize and break the cycle of a crappy relationship experience? How do we create the relationship experience that we actually desire? It all comes down to what you are committed to, how you communicate, and what you are willing to give up. Thank you for watching and sharing. Message me if you are interested in working together one-on-one, or in one of my group coaching programs. Thank you!
We are all dealing with stuff, or will at some point in our lifetime. I wanted to share part of my journey today and let you know that you are not alone and you have support. Message me if you’re interested is discussing more. Thanks for liking and sharing!
If anyone posting #metoo wants support, wants to talk, wants to scream...I am making myself available to you. Conversely, if anyone is confused by #metoo and wants to understand, I am available to you as well. Message me. Same for #blacklivesmatter and anyone else feeling discriminated against, marginalized, attacked, harassed, etc.
Is Visualization an Escape?
"Don't Put All Your Eggs in One Basket" is a Scarcity Conversation. How to allow things to show up for you!
The Shortest Empowerment Video Ever! Every single one of you has value and adds value!
Manifesting Goals and Intentions. What do you want to experience in your life? What do you want your experience to be?
Why do things keep coming up and getting in the way?
The importance of self-care and making yourself a priority!
What do you want and what are you experiencing? Your mindset and how to take control. Thank you for watching and sharing!
What is this "Coaching with Matthew Solomon?" What does a coach do? "Are you still making movies?"
OK friends, the time has come. I am now accepting coaching clients! Hit me up and let's get this done!!